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I used this system on both the synastry inter-aspects, Davison Chart and composite charts. On the other end of the scale there are the super aspects. I regard these as karmic-contract aspects. I have found it to be significant. These are usually catalyst relationships and their sole purpose is pulling you onto the right karmic path. When this is achieved the relationship ends pretty quickly. UNDER 17 you get lovers or co-dependant marriages. Strong composite charts could offset everything….
OVER 40 is not necessarily a good thing. So you see it is not as simple as getting a high soulmate score or feeling doomed because you have two red alerts. Once you have the score, then you can then look into the synastry and see what is specifically pulling a couple together. You could still have a very high score with someone who you are not sexually attracted to at all, this could be with a best friend or child.
This system helps establish if there is a solid framework for the romance and the magic to hang onto. My last relationship was off the charts with a high score but we also had mars square Saturn. Our romance ended after five months. Additional warning: things may move slower than you want.
They all have certain pet peeves: don't disturb their sleep; don't leave dishes dirty if you live with them that you'll never clean causing them to always wash the dishes; don't be blind to the fact that they're gorgeous and you see them all the time and should probably open up your heart about it already. Also, don't be stupid. They may stare at you helplessly trying to figure out how to translate their thoughts to figure out how to help you when you've been so dumb.
They'll think for you if they have to. They may not really want to be known for their interests, quirks, and everything else.
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They probably stick out like a sore thumb at times, but there are times where they are consciously trying to blend or be normal. Then they'll say something witty or start laughing out of nowhere. Writing is a big escape for them; journaling on the daily is a must. Doing so helps them reflect on what happened that day, and it keeps their mind at ease.
They are likely to flood you with messages to then suddenly stop, and then repeat the process over and over. If you encourage the flood of messages, they'll keep going. Sign in or sign up and post using a HubPages Network account. Comments are not for promoting your articles or other sites. I realized I have been a victim of torture and identity theft since I was I know people who drugged me up as a child then was disappointed when I didn't react like a sicko. Since I was a kid, these same people have been drugging me up the whole time also since 13 they have been attempting to turn me into a transvestite by injection of estrogen, and behavior conditioning me into being a woman.
Neighbor talked me into putting on a woman bathing suit then circulated pictures around high School. Whole family is in on it thing is I don't think it's a joke. Eerily spot on..
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I feel like my soul has just been searched and exposed. The acccuracy of this is scary. I am very big on reading and I have taken a lot of personality tests and have read a lot of write ups. But this is different. No post has ever made me feel so understood. I appreciate whoever came up with this understanding of the INFJ personality type. I proudly am an INFJ. Thanks for making me realise I am not weird and I can as well be understood. This literally described every aspect of my personality, kind of scary.
Phil below just you saying that proves you are an INFJ. I feel the same but most people would not think that much into it. I was told I was crazy, why do I think that but when they need a soft place they would turn to me. My dad alcoholic , complete opposite of me. Does not get me and constantly makes jabs at me.
I am not artsy though I love flowers and nature. I have been hurt deeply by so called friends and boyfriends so I have trust issues etc. So I agree Phil it is painful to feel so deeply and hurt for others. I wish I had not been so hurt and trying to change for so long as maybe I could have helped others. My dad and sister have narcissist tendencies who despise who I am. I really want the best for ppl. Ppl do take advantage of you and I have had very low self esteem all my life.
Now seeing some ppl celebrate who you are I could have maybe done more with my life. Right now I just want to be alone and shunning the world a bit. I also never ghost someone!
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Why do a majority of these articles seem to be written by authors who bring their own personality bias into them and then shape the narrative to fit their ideal selves? I mean, frequenting coffee shops and staying clean are dominant traits of INFJ? It reads like a superiority checklist of how great INFJs are while sidestepping the struggles most of us face. I always been wishing to be invincible. Accurate to a certain extent I have not had top grades at all. You could say math was my struggle area.
Weirdly, for languages and grammar, I never really needed to study and got top scores always. Ive read my fair share of horoscope books and found there are definite like-characteristics that govern me to my astrological sign, but found other attributes to be way off. Im pleasantly shocked to find me in every bit of likeness reading this article or any of the articles that i have read as it pertains to INFJ. I can relate to most of these. The thing about touch is really interesting! I love hugs but I'm very picky about who gets to touch me.
And yeah, I can gauge a person and pick up on their essence through touch. Totally random, never realized that before. Regarding the "secretiveness", I do wish i had more friends. It's not that I don't want to open up, but there are very few people I connect with deeply enough to be around them so they can discover all the facets of the diamond that is my personality I do morph depending on where I am, what I'm doing and who I'm with I am very friendly and congenial to most people, and most of them never realize that they walked away never having found out anything about me, really.
At the same time, if they keep turning the conversation back to me and I don't feel comfortable talking about myself to them, then it just becomes a weird deflectionary contest. So, self-inflicted catch INFJs are also continuously secretive. Everyone is disposable. They will be a completely different version of themselves depending on their surroundings.
An INFJ can walk through a party and be a different person at each social circle. They are being sincere each time. They are also the most rewarding relationship you can experience.
This must be the definitive INFJ characteristics list. I read elsewhere that INFJ brains don't tend to show strong left or strong right side dominance. I don't know if there is information on other types' dominance. I studied music for many years which is known to involve both sides of the brain so this may be a factor.
Before you go running your ego into a pit of delusion, make sure to notice that most people will resonate with a large percentage of what this author wrote. This is bordering on horoscope trickery. It's true Also infjs love to read just about anything especially if the topic revolves around humanity and conspiracy theories. I have known I am an INFJ for about 5 years now and I have a lot of forums, articles, and pieces about us, but this piece is creepily accurate.
I have felt or I am feeling all of the things described above and I am interested or have done all of the things described. It's strange how much this resonates with me. I love it. I don't have alot of friends. Many aquaintences, but a small group of family that I am close to. I don't typically dress artsy but more jeans and T-shirts. I am great at memorizing lyrics.
Most of this is like me. Definitely love a homey environment. Definitely need plenty of alone time and with other introverts. I enjoy some extravert time then off I go. Very well written I am not a spiritual person at all. I lost my hope in humanity at least the majority of them. My only hope is our technology. I think our salvation is in technology. I have an existentialist mindset But I don't like this thing. I perceive these as harsh truths. I preferred to suffer than lying to myself.
I am pure logic. But most people don't like this truth.
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They want to run away from the truth. That's why I use a facade to socialize with other people. I hope to find someone to share this burden with or someone who is able to cure me This is so accurate, it is scary! Thank you for writing this. I am an INFJ and I could identify with almost everything, except one or two things naming random objects and playing a musical instrument, although I did learn to play one as I took it as a challenge.
Now I feel strangely exposed! I'm pretty awestruck at how much these hubs resonate with people. Perhaps I should have gone into psychology for a field. Study hard and the mysteries of Myers Briggs will unveil itself, even if it's origins are not so flattering. At first, I thought you were playing around because the first one is not true at all at least for me but as I get into it more, I felt like we've known each other for a while. Reading this felt like you were in my head, or watching me over my shoulder, as I stumble around alternately making a fool of myself sometimes on purpose , or astounding passersby with some random comment, or a total stranger talking to me about their health problem.
There's a couple there that I don't really relate to, but the vast majority of them I do. Highly interesting and accurate for me, an INFJ. I even named my first car "Das Boat", since it was this huge piece of crap that had a horn you could hear from miles away. The main exceptions on this list would be the comments about asexuality and how to "win" me back. I'm definitely asexual despite people in my life claiming that is a delusion on my part I'm not picky.
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Whenever I "doorslam" someone, it doesn't matter if they are aggressive or acting sweet. It's over. In fact, I'm even more likely to move on if they act sweet, because then I interpret that as grade-A manipulation. God help you if you bring up nostalgia. That said, that tactic USED to work on me when I was younger and had lower self-esteem, but then the same people burned me repeatedly after the second plus third and fourth chances I gave them.
Nowadays, I'm not as forgiving. It is not weird. You have a vision of something, and depending on what it is you can make it into a reality. Try meditation and allowing yourself the freedom to do this to better enhance the skill. Hey i believe I am an infj and i was just wondering is what I am about to share is normal S sorry if it sounds weird. My goodness!
This was some marvelous writing. I wish I could help you to identify what is happening here.
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Your thought-stream has impressed me, and I rather enjoy what I'm witnessing here. From the other side of the Internet, this is what I see. You are clearly introverted and intuitive. You don't ring like a sensing person at all, which means that is a lower function for certain, and intuition is one of the higher traits. The way you describe things sounds focused on ideas, and in my mind thinking of you, I see you as highly observant, capable of social interactions, but brilliant. The way you're sorting through thoughts has a certain strategical way about it, and you sound somewhat baffled by humans to a degree that isn't as fitting for an INFJ.
However, to feel connected to an entire list may mean that yes, you are an INFJ, and some of the colorfulness of how this is written is very INFJ like. This can make them feel weird and feel as though they belong with the P crowd INTP can really drag out the perceptions it has and lose complete sense of time. My boyfriend is INTP and he needs an external clock, another person, to get him on track and push him or he'll do some rather However, he can be obsessive about wanting projects to be done, so he can get obsessed with wanting something clean -- and will complete it to the chagrin of other mishaps.
As an INFJ, cleaning can get done to a point -- until you run into a wall and start daydreaming and prefer to do something, just about anything, else. He was the one who finally cleaned the stove after a big mess, where I was the one who was doing it in small steps every day or so, because I found it exhausting. But I can do perpetual weekly things -- dishes, sweeping, laundry.
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Those can easily be neglected by the INTP counterpart. See the difference? Do you feel like you are an isolated person, that it's difficult for you to be understood -- and if someone contexualized you, it would be a miracle? The one miracle you really want? Or option 2: you feel like you can absorb, understand people around you with an incredible and scary amount of ease, sometimes without you realizing you are even doing that, and sometimes you feel pressure to tell people something you see and know and hold to be huge? INFJ people can see and predict things about people that are incredible, and nothing short of incredible.
Here's another thought since you are an adult. Do you feel like you started to know and express yourself in your emotions or your strategic thinking? What matured and developed and felt more in reach -- emotional, social reasoning -- or rational non-social reasoning? The INFJ would take to their emotions first, and also express them in an extroverted manner.
The INTP would encounter and develop and mature it's extroverted thinking first, while frequently feeling its emotions and social skills INFJ is drawn to theory, psychics, and the like because of this absorbent attitude it has. INTP could have an interest here, and be charmed by it, but it isn't the backbone of their thinking. When the test was first administered on me, I was in a very abusive relationship with a sociopath and took the test under that person's tutelage, being told what to answer.
The results never fit. I became frustrated and after many years, divorce, counselling and healing, tested INTP. Still didn't identify with the description and function stack. Spent numerous years musing over my early developmental stages trying to identify my type. Just last week, while browsing websites looking for ENFP descriptions to better understand a close and dear friend who interestingly seems to be my only friend, I started reading and found I could relate Laughed aloud and thought, "This type is into these too, eh?
I adhere strictly to some specific habits. I wish others would learn to do the same as I know they would be greatly enhanced as a person. But everyone knows this and some have learned the benefits. The 7 Habits is practically a text book for any successful, effective person wanting to grow, become better, achieve goals, not merely specific to this type. Oh maybe the author was an INFJ. Kept reading Please just leave the thinking to me. For that matter, just leave everything to me and I'll look after it as soon as you're gone. Are you still here? Your presence is, well frankly, stressing me out!
My brain is getting really hot, oh now it's starting to swell up. I can feel the pressure in my frontal lobe. Crap, I can't think at all. Who are you? How did you in get here? Please tell me you have your own car parked out front because I'm not getting into a confined space with you to drive you home? Why are you still here? I'm barely tolerating your presence right now. BUT I'm not ever going to tell you that, that would hurt your feelings so I'll just glaze over, walk away and give you some space to figure out why I'm glazed over, walking away, putting space between me and thee.
Depending on my sense of accountability to you, I may call over my shoulder that "I'm probably going to be out of cell range for a few hours, days, weeks One of them pipes up, "Oh, Oh, Let's all have a moment!
Me an INFJ? I called my first car "Rosa" but people laughed at me for naming an inanimate object. Refer to So even though these 70 points are spot on and, like the one person commented I would never presume! I am not! Unlike some bloggers who write, "I used to be It is a fallacy. You are or you are not. Your limited understanding of yourself prevents you from answering truthfully your "preferences" while in a relaxed, comfortable state of being. I can answer truthfully the questions that lean toward E and T as my family and especially friends project to me an image of someone who is outgoing, great with people but can be aloof, ignoring them or shutting them out for periods of time or just going MIA "forever" on some relationships, under the guise of exploring some new idea or getting lost in a project F's don't do that!!
Now I understand there are F types that are practically Ghost experts and have mastered the technique of slamming a door in your face without your even hearing or seeing it unless they want you to. My oldest daughter commented once about my tendency to show up late. I told her I was trying to fit in as much as possible so I didn't waste time sitting idle just to appear 10 minutes early. She told me she thought my P may really be a J and it was really a "control thing". Admittedly, I can readily discern those who will grant a 10 minute grace period or those from whom I will benefit by a 10 minute early arrival.
If I've never met the person and not had the opportunity for discernment, I'm just simply on time! He and I have a very open communication style and just "get" each other! I have lived long enough to have experienced the development of each function and although I have in recent years been developing Se, am slow at mastering the techniques and have noticed, surprisingly enough, that depending on the status of my relationships on any given day, can perform brilliantly or conversely am stiff or even paralyzed and abandon the whole experience in deference to enjoying observing others perform with ease and grace.
That is the question. Yes, animals can not speak for themselves. We may understand. I have hope that will change. A lot of injustice in the world, I hope I can can pass it on. Boy does this describe me, most of all my kinship with animals, I know what they are thinking and I know exactly how they feel and what they are telling the world. Yes body language..
I am born people watcher with wicked intutuion and as I get older more of a recluse Can t really handle people much anymore So I don't It will give you a smile. Shine on. All INFJ, you are special. May not see world peace in our lifetime. Hold hands, an example is the best to pass on. Yes, Barnes and Noble was my place for sanctuary, the library. Totally understand! Just remember, your unique personality speaks volumes and is something much needed.
Oh wow. Goodness, it sounds like you are very hungry for personal growth -- and that is a great place to be. Aging helps with the process of becoming a stronger INFJ, kind of like how wine gets better with age. I think reading as much as you can and figuring out where your shortcomings are will help you to strengthen yourself.
The issue for INFJ lies in extroverted sensing. We have a hard time being present with our senses and what we are absorbing -- making certain tasks like cleaning, money saving, and not running into objects somewhat difficult. As much as learning about the wise sage material of INFJ thinkers, it is also good to get engaged in things that employ your senses and make you more present -- whether cooking, dancing, or rock climbing.
Find something like this. It will help. Wow, nice to know I fit somewhere. My mother told me I was probably abductced by aliens as a child. And yes, went through years of counseling, attracted anyone who was in need of love and help. So yeah! I am blessed to love my job and as corny as it sounds, love my life, job, and the people who teach me life can be tough sometimes. Am wiser, but still have faith in the world.
My mother would still tell I am alien. Ha ha, to all of the INJF s our there, we have the greats standing behind us. This is so accurate that it is scary! I think I checked about every single box For so many years I felt that I had something wrong with me. We are truly strange creatures. Weird habits and traits, insane thoughts, and a compassion for people that can be a blessing and a curse I literally have instances for every pointer.. I don't have a lot of friends, but I have a slew of acquaintances, then my "circle" and finally my "inner circle" which is about 3 people.
I don't "evaluate" people, then decide they're no longer "useful" and toss them aside like trash, narcissists and sociopaths do this, not INFJ, and in fact I'm loathe to have rifts in my relationships, as they are all of equal importance to me, because they are all wonderfully unique and perfectly flawed persons, just like me. I do appreciate some of the less common traits we possess, for instance, I am indeed an excellent cook, including cakes.
I think you should include we practice a healthy level of self-deprecation, to the same degree we are introspective, as you said, we know all about our own crap, and unlike many, we have no problem admitting when we're wrong, and easily apologize sincerely, as we are also very empathetic souls, can't stand to hurt others, and this makes us great targets for toxic people, and they gravitate toward us, as it's pretty obvious in the first few minutes of talking to us our greatest desire is to see everyone live happy, healthy and whole lives, and we excitedly will do our part in making that a reality for others, often at the cost of self.
Being the empathetic souls we are, we are often seen as weak, and though it is the case sometimes, codependent, but this is not a hard fast rule, it's just that codependents and empaths share certain traits, and have similar yet upon closer examination polar opposite behavior in our interpersonal relationships. I just ticked every single box. I had no friends at school because I didn't think anybody liked me.